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Happiness (n.) chased ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠too fast gets overtaken and left behind.

Happiness (n.) can ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠be what suffocates: 'I am too happy; happiness bores me', says Julie before her death.

Happiness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a pagan category of the pleasure principle — no wonder the Dalai Lama's gospel of it sells best in the empire of its pursuit.

Happiness (n.) costs ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the subject the courage of its desire: we stay happy by never facing the consequences of what we want.

Happiness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠inherently hypocritical: the bliss of dreaming about things we do not really want — the worst that can happen is to get what we officially desire.

Happiness (n.) sabotages ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠itself once our spiritualized hedonism declares it the goal of life: anxiety and depression explode precisely then — which is why Freud is more pertinent than ever.

Happiness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠not a category of truth but of mere being — confused and inconsistent, like the immigrant who said: "Yes, I am very happy, aber glücklich bin ich nicht."

Happiness (n.) flourished ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠in 1980s Czechoslovakia: needs met but not too well, brief shortages to make you grateful, a Party to blame, and a West to dream of at just the right distance.

Happiness (n.) should ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠not be chased too hard — you might overtake it and leave it behind; like Achilles, who can pass the tortoise but never catch her. The Real is a limit always missed, too early or too late.

Happiness (n.) may ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠require a double renunciation: in Claudel, Orion gets the unconditional passion and dies after one night, Orso gets to marry Pensée but renounces sex — two scenarios that must occur in fantasy for a normal marriage to take place.