Melancholia (n.) is the ego pleading guilty: it accepts punishment because the hated object now lives inside it.
Melancholia (n.) is a pure culture of the death instinct in the super-ego, raging against the ego until it drives it to death — unless the ego escapes into mania.
Melancholia (n.) is a loss hidden from consciousness: the patient knows whom he lost, but not what he lost in him.
Melancholia (n.) impoverishes the self: in mourning the world becomes poor and empty; in melancholia, the ego itself does.
Melancholia (n.) overcomes even the instinct that compels every living thing to cling to life.
Melancholia (n.) reproaches itself without shame — it shows an insistent communicativeness that finds satisfaction in self-exposure.
Melancholia (n.) turns reproach against a loved one into self-reproach: the wife pitying her husband for having such an incapable wife is calling him incapable.
Melancholia (n.) complains in the old legal sense of “plaint”: the melancholic is unashamed, because everything derogatory he says of himself is at bottom said of someone else.
Melancholia (n.) torments the self, and the self-torment is without doubt enjoyable: hate for the beloved, turned round on the self, which by the circuitous path of illness still takes revenge on the original object.
Melancholia (n.) behaves like an open wound, drawing energy to itself from every direction and emptying the ego until it is totally impoverished — hence sleeplessness.
Melancholia (n.) is fought out in countless separate struggles in which hate and love contend over the object — one to detach the libido, the other to hold it.
Melancholia (n.) ends as mourning does — mourning declares the object dead; each struggle of ambivalence loosens it by disparaging it and, as it were, killing it.
Melancholia (n.) shows conscience at its cruellest: the super-ego abuses the poor ego with accusations it seems to have spent years collecting.
Melancholia (n.) is probably a sharp conflict in which the ideal, oversensitive, condemns the ego through delusions of inferiority and self-depreciation.
Melancholia (n.) is a conflict between the ego and the super-ego, Freud's narcissistic psychoneurosis.