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Mourning is, in the U.S. and England, now treated as morbid self-indulgence. Social admiration is given to the bereaved who hide their grief so fully that no one would guess anything had happened.
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Mourning is no longer a public affair. This comes as a result of the increasing pressure of a new ethical duty to enjoy oneself, a novel imperative to do nothing which might diminish the enjoyment of others.
