fittingness, n.All

Fittingness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠never abstract: nothing is fitting for anyone in itself, because it matters who gives, who receives, when, where and why.

Fittingness (n.) of ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠saying is the first law of thinking — not the rules of logic, which become rules only on its basis; it asks not just how to say something but whether and when it ought to be said.