pampering, n.All

Pampering (n.) carries ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠its own penalty, weakness: we lose the power to do the things we have long grudged doing.