self pity, n.All

Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics in that it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.

Self-pity dries up our sympathy for others.

Self-pity is, in its early stages, as snug as a feather mattress, and when it hardens, it becomes uncomfortable.

Self-pity is allowing own misery to fill one's heart such that there is no longer any room therein for other people's sorrow.

Self-pity is always rooted in people taking themselves too seriously.

Self-pity is being caught up the terrible squirrel cage of self... as such, it is the most destructive of emotions.

Self-pity shortens your life.

Self-pity is feeling sorry for yourself when you ought to feel sorry for those who have to live with you.