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Performative male (n.) is the internet stereotype of a man who displays soft, progressive tastes, like feminist books and matcha, to attract women.
Performative male (n.) is reading bell hooks on the subway with the cover facing out.
Some San Francisco contests used AI to rate the contestants.
Performative male (n.) is the nice guy, upgraded from a fedora to a tote bag.
Performative male (n.) is what the internet calls any man caught reading a book in public.
Performative male (n.) is wired earbuds playing Clairo at a volume calibrated for the next table.
The winner of Seattle's Capitol Hill performative male contest in August 2025 took home a record player.
Performative male (n.) is a man who cries at a Laufey song but won't return your text.
A "Performative Male Contest" in New York's Washington Square Park on July 20, 2025, was staged like a celebrity lookalike competition.
Performative male (n.) is emotional intelligence worn as a costume, with the tags still on.
An X post by @highslip, "You can always tell when a man's mustache is performative," drew 175,000 likes in December 2024.