sexual identity, n.All

Sexual identity (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a nineteenth-century idea, summed up in its motto: "Tell me your desires, and I will tell you who you are."

Sexual identity (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a question no one escapes: whether you are really a man if you are a man, really a woman if you are a woman, and not only your partner asks it.

Sexual identity (n.) coherent ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠along the feminine/masculine axis is bound to fail: the repressed keeps returning as the very impossibility of its coherence.