A Norm is a cultural ideal that determines the 'desirable body', imposes a 'grid of intelligibility' on the social, delineates possible modes of bodily life, and blurs the distinction between the descriptive and the normative (i.e. Between how things are how they 'ought to' be).
A Norm is an intersubjectively binding reciprocal expectation of behavior which regulates legitimate chances for the satisfaction of need.
A Norm is an average standard created by the human sciences against which people are measured: The sane man, the law-abiding citizen, and the obedient child are all 'normal' people.
A Norm is a standard that an individual relies on in judging how to act toward a given other person.
A Norm is a kind of grammar of social interactions that specifies what is acceptable and what is not in a society or group. As with grammar, it is not the product of human design and planning.
A Norm is a positive ideal in the sense that it offers a culturally dominant model of those forms of embodiment required to achieve a valorized subjectivity (e.g., 'masculinity' for men, 'femininity' for women).