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Marriage (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a dramatic meeting between nature and civilization.

Marriage (n.) shares ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a single Yoruba word with meal, ownership, merit, gain and winnings: marrying and eating are one and the same thing.

Marriage (n.) in ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠exogamy is a repeated act of symbolic differentiation between clans of men, with women as the gift that binds them.

Marriage (n.) tamed ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the cannibal buffalo: in a Plains myth, once a buffalo wed a human girl, buffaloes turned 'all flesh' instead of 'all bone' — food for men instead of eaters of men.

Marriage (n.) among ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the Nambikwara wears two faces: in public the men speak of women with kindly, mocking condescension, but alone by the fire husband and wife are partners who know how vitally they depend on each other.

Marriage (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the one exchange between groups with real substance: Aranda women really bear children, while Aranda men only imagine that their rites make the totem species multiply — one is a way of doing, the other only a way of saying.