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Consolation (n.) consists ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠chiefly in being free from the mistaken notion which generally causes pain at the departure of friends.

Consolation (n.) as ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠Epicurus offers it prescribes a grieving friend a sturgeon instead of Socrates, a water organ instead of Plato, and a nosegay held to his nose.

Consolation (n.) drawn ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠from the misfortunes of others is a comfort fit only for the malevolent.

Consolation (n.) should ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠show not how men in general have suffered such evils, but how men of sense have borne them.

Consolation (n.) applied ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠to a fresh grief does violence to nature — but then the greatness of the grief may give way to the greatness of the medicine.