erotomania, n.All

Erotomania (n.) begins ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠not with an inner perception of loving but with an outer perception of being loved: "she loves me".