Desire (n.) is a curved space. When we confront the object of our desire, more satisfaction is provided by dancing around it than by directly going at it.
Desire (n.) is always reflexive. I never simply desire an object, rather I can desire to desire it, I can hate to desire it, I can be indifferent to this desire, etc.
Desire (n.) is even when transgressive and violating social norms, necessarily conditioned by what it transgresses.
Desire (n.) is indifferent to the particular objects that may, but never fully do, satisfy it.
Desire (n.) is not concerned with the question 'what do you want'' But 'what's bugging you'' That is, what is it about which you have become unbearable that you do not master'.
Desire (n.) is not the subject's own. It is the other's desire (with whom I interact). The fantasmatic scene is an answer to 'your saying this but what is it that you want by saying it'.
Desire (n.) is structured and predetermined by the symbolic order in which we well. Even when transgressive, the transgression is conditioned by what it transgresses.
Desire (n.) is the other's desire. It is 'as' other that man desires.