178 definitions
The book's index
On Friendship (Laelius de Amicitia)
111 concepts · 178 definitions
- admiration1
- advantage1
- advice1
- affection5
- ambition1
- amicitia1
- annihilation1
- anxiety1
- blind loyalty1
- body1
- carelessness1
- character1
- compliance2
- complicity1
- consolation1
- Correction1
- cruelty1
- death1
- decline1
- definition1
- delight1
- demagogue1
- dislike1
- emotion1
- equality1
- estrangement1
- excellence1
- faction1
- fair-weather friend2
- faithful friend1
- false pretence1
- favour1
- fear1
- fidelity1
- flatterer2
- flattery4
- fool1
- forbearance1
- fortune1
- frankness1
- friend4
- friends2
- friendship41
- funeral rites1
- generosity1
- good1
- good man1
- greed1
- grief1
- habit1
- happiness1
- help1
- hostility1
- inconstancy1
- intimacy1
Friendship (n.) does not follow material advantage; material advantage follows friendship.
Friendship (n.) enhances prosperity, and relieves adversity of its burden by halving and sharing it.
Friendship (n.) may be defined as a complete accord on all subjects human and divine, joined with mutual goodwill and affection.
Friendship (n.) should be unstitched rather than torn in two.
Virtue (n.) is what we love in a friend, and that does not suffer death.
Virtue (n.) is not rigid and unyielding as iron; it is so supple that it expands at a friend's good fortune and contracts at his misfortunes.
Virtue (n.) is a beacon-light: nothing inspires love, nothing conciliates affection, like it.
Virtue (n.) naturally loves herself, for she knows herself and perceives how worthy of love she is.
Affection (n.) holds up house and city; take it out of nature and not even the tilling of the soil will be left.
Affection (n.) returned is the most delightful thing there is; it is irrational to delight in office, fame and fine buildings, which cannot love back, and not in a being that can.
Affection (n.) lost from our life takes with it all that gives life charm.
Affection (n.) in excess can hinder a friend's highest interests: Neoptolemus would never have taken Troy had he listened to the tears of Lycomedes.
Flattery (n.) at its most cunning disguises itself as contradiction: it disputes, then gives in, so its victim may think himself the clearer-sighted.
Flattery (n.) becomes mischievous from those above us, the weight of their position making up for the lightness of their character.
Flattery (n.) is, with adulation and base compliance, the most utterly subversive thing there is to friendship.
Flattery (n.) can, injurious as it is, hurt no one but the man who takes it in and likes it.
A Friend (n.) is someone to whom you can say everything with the same absolute confidence as to yourself.
A Friend (n.) ought at times to be in want of something, or one's affection would have no scope.
A Friend (n.) should not take the view of a man that he takes of himself, but raise his drooping spirits.
A Friend (n.) who thinks you may one day be his enemy must wish you to commit as many mistakes as possible.
Friends (n.) get less care than anything: every one can tell exactly how many goats or sheep he has, but not how many friends.
Friends (n.) are the most valuable and beautiful furniture of life.
Love (n.) is just the cleaving to him whom you love without the prompting of need or any view to advantage.
Love (n.) springs up like a flame when virtue, having shown its light, recognises the same light in another and gravitates towards it.
Compliance (n.) gets us friends, plain speaking hate.
Compliance (n.) does far more harm than plain speaking, because by indulging a friend's faults it lets him plunge into headlong ruin.
A Fair-weather friend (n.) cannot be told from a real one until you have ceased to be able to repay either.
A Fair-weather friend (n.) is all a tyrant ever has, and his fall shows him at once how friendless he is.
Flatterer (n.) has laid one task upon himself: to echo all that's said — if one says no, he says no; if yes, yes.
Flatterer (n.) always exaggerates what his victim wishes to be put strongly: asked 'much obliged?', he answers not 'much' but 'immensely'.