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Selfishness (n.) wrestles ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠with the words “as thyself” and comes away limping, like Jacob after wrestling with God.

Selfishness (n.) at ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠its most devoted says “I cannot love anyone else, I should die of love” — which pleases the poet beyond measure and which self-abnegation refuses to call love.

Selfishness (n.) often ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠lacks the strength to be selfish alone; it does not really appear until it finds its other ego, and the two together find strength for self-esteem.

Selfishness (n.) counts ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠as selfishness in the world's book only when alone; joined with other selfish people, especially many, the world calls it love.

Selfishness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the wisest policy, says the world — which hardly speaks well of a world in which selfishness pays best.

Selfishness (n.) does ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠not explain sin; it is by sin and in sin that selfishness comes into being — the other way round is a game in which the interpreter finds what he first hid.

Selfishness (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠God's one obstacle, stepping between God and man like the earth's shadow eclipsing the moon.