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Fidelity (n.) is, ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠aesthetically, a theatrical property — the phantom at the spinning-wheel awaiting the beloved; once he comes, aesthetics loses interest.

Fidelity (n.) is ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠inconceivably great so long as she is not sure of the beloved — and just as great when he declines it.

Fidelity (n.) risks ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a double danger when kept to a negative resolution: it goes unrewarded, a withered glory, and it may be rewarded at last by repentance.

Fidelity (n.) can ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠be a weapon in marriage: the husband who worries his wife to death by his marital fidelity is indignant at the thought of such falseness.

Fidelity (n.) so ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠grandiose it raises the question: did he go mad because he was faithful to the girl, or was he faithful because he was mad?

Fidelity (n.) has ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠a romantic logic: let him have seduced ten girls, she'll take him at any price — but if he is married, she cannot have him.

Fidelity (n.) as ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠the true retention of love is the power of giving it up expressing itself as holding on — the true and well-assured hovering.

Fidelity (n.) waits ⁠​‌​​​‌​​​‌​‌‌​​​​‌​‌​​‌‌​‌​​‌​​​​​‌‌​​‌​​​‌‌​‌‌​⁠fifteen years for one rewarding instant in the knight; in the husband, it is fifteen years of possessing and continuously re-acquiring what he has.