Self-respect (n.) is tied to being able to practise requital, in good things and bad.
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Self-respect (n.) is where everything else begins — and the moment one has it, one is finished for others: "What? A man who respects himself?"
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Self-respect (n.) is the one thing least easily forgiven: it exposes what tolerance, the only virtue of everyone else, really involves.
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Self-respect (n.) is where to begin, and everything else follows — though with that one is finished for the others; it is the last thing they can forgive.
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Self-respect (n.) in most people is kept up by disparaging everyone else they know.